We recall some details so sharply and others hide away — like those of people we loved
Organised religion, which tells us to believe in invisible things, does not tackle real suffering
'Women like my grandmother held up half the sky with simple food, the spirit of celebration and an open kitchen door'
Palesa Sauhatsi lost her grandfather in May 2015 and misses making him tea
Going to see family during the festive season is often doubly troubling for LGBTI people.